The Adventures of J.Blaze

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Wednesday, July 21, 2004

Krispy Kreme

Dear all,

I would like you all to go to Krispy Kreme and order a frozen glazed donut latte drink in morning. 

Talk about "part of your healthy breakfast."

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People who are quiet and don't talk a lot in the public actually talk a lot more online.  Its the computer that gives them a sense of protection and maybe self-confidence to talk more.  Humans....so complex and so weird.

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My sis got asked out by some her male friend to eat at an "expensive" Asian restaurant on 86th st and Broadway.  Hehe, I suspect its Rain.  But my mom said hell no to when my sis asked if she can go.  Hehe, lockdown!

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What is she is rich?

Traditional thinking says the man is “supposed to” earn more than the woman, and traditionally-minded men feel more comfortable in the role of chief material provider. But according to marketing futurist Faith Popcorn, 40% of households with an income of $600,000 or more are headed by women. Some of those women are out in the dating world looking for love. One of them might even love you… if you can figure out what she wants that money can’t buy. What can you do to make a great impression on dates with a wealthier woman without killing yourself financially?

 

To come up with an answer to that, er, jackpot question, you may need to reinvent yourself a little – or at least rethink your image of yourself. Getting a wow out of this woman will require something more substantive than a luxury car, references to vacations at exclusive resorts, or extensive knowledge of the triple-digit-priced bottles on the wine list at the most expensive restaurant in town. The good news is that “more substantive” doesn’t necessarily mean “more material.” (If it does, she’s probably in the “knows the price of everything and the value of nothing” category and not worth your trouble.)

 

What you have to offer should be coming not out of your wallet, but out of yourself. What does that mean? Start by giving her your undivided attention when you’re together. Make eye contact with her. Show her that when she’s talking, you’re really listening. Be communicative and emotionally available. She’s independent financially, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t need you – she just needs to depend on you for support of a different nature. Remember things she’s told you. If she mentions that she’s working non-stop toward an important business deal, wish her luck the night before or call to see how it went afterward. If she mentions her child’s dance recital or soccer match, ask how it went and mention the child by name. That you remember a few of the details she’s shared about her life won’t go unnoticed and will score you big points. She’s probably got a high-pressure job. She has personal obligations. So she’s dealing with her fair share of stress every day. Can you make her laugh? Can you charm her with little romantic flourishes – nothing elaborate, nothing forced – that make the strains and anxieties of everyday life recede from her thoughts?

 

If she thinks of her time with you as a respite, a space of time in which she can relax and enjoy herself, she’s going to savor and look forward to that time. And the best news of all? This strategy works equally well to attract women who are just plain middle class, like you. If you follow it, at the very least you can count on a richer dating life. 

 




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